FOTO Tamara Ecclestone fotkom izazvala zgražanje i bijes: "Dojit ću kćer do njezine četvrte godine"

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Zadnja nadopuna: 10:14, 10. veljače 2017.

FOTO Tamara Ecclestone fotkom izazvala zgražanje i bijes: "Dojit ću kćer do njezine četvrte godine"

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KĆI Bernija i Slavice Ecclestone, 32-godišnja Tamara Ecclestone, objavila je fotografiju na Instagramu na kojoj doji trogodišnje dijete uz poruku kojom se osvrnula na mržnju i netoleranciju koju je doživjela na društvenim mrežama.

Svojom odlukom na dojenje kćeri Sophie do njezine četvrte godine isprovocirala je mnoge te izazvala žustru raspravu njezinih pratitelja na društvenim mrežama. Objavom najnovije fotografije dojenja osvrnula se na kritike onih koji su negativno reagirali na njezinu odluku kao roditelja.

Find it a very sad and surprising sign of the times and the world we live in that the act of breast feeding your child evokes such hatred in so many bitter people. I am astonished that breast feeding mums get such a hard time as there is no reason why we should. I would never ask someone when they will take away their toddlers bottle or follow on formula or cows milk or dummy or comforter nor do I judge those who choose to formula feed their children of give them cows milk. I support and empower all mums and I personally believe hatred is so heavy and bad for the soul. I hope by the time Fifi is a mumma people who have chosen to be open about Their breast feeding journey will mean that seeing a picture of a mum feeding their child won't evoke any reaction and that it is seen only for what it is a mum doing her best. To me there is nothing but love in this photograph and I find is such a shame that it brings out anger in some of you it's sad for you that that's how you choose to live particularly those that have made comments trying to sexualise breastfeeding are particularly unwell. I chose love. I want my daughter to grow up in a better world where this is nothing but normal in a better world.

Fotografiju objavljuje Tamara Ecclestone Rutland (@tamaraecclestoneofficial) Vel 9, 2017 u 4:51 PST

Bogatoj nasljednici nije jasno zbog čega je izazvala toliku mržnju niti zašto su neki toliko ljuti zbog njezine odluke, te kako radi ono što misli da je najbolje za njezinu kćer. Ipak, mnogi su komentirali kako je Sophia prestara za dojenje.

Good morning 💗

Fotografiju objavljuje Tamara Ecclestone Rutland (@tamaraecclestoneofficial) Vel 7, 2017 u 12:37 PST

Kćer ima s Jayom Rutlandom, za kojeg se udala 2013. godine na svadbi za koju se procjenjuje da je koštala 12 milijuna funti.

U poruci je napisala kako "smatra vrlo tužnim i iznenađujućim da u današnje vrijeme dojenje može izazvati toliku mržnju u toliko ogorčenih ljudi". Dalje nastavlja kako je "šokirana da mame koje doje dobivaju negativne reakcije jer nema razloga za tim". Napisala je kako "ne osuđuje odluke drugih roditelja" i kako "nikada ne bi tražila od nekog roditelja da prestane hraniti svoje dijete na bočicu".

Negativne reakcije svojih pratitelja nazvala je sramotnim, te izjavila kako na ovim fotografijama ona vidi samo ljubav. Poruku je zaključila izjavom kako "izabire ljubav" i da želi da "njezina kćer odrasta u boljem svijetu".

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Thank you @ivetteivens for capturing this beautiful moment this is by far my favourite photograph but mainly thank you for spreading this message. Breastfeeding is a powerful demonstration of love and nurturing yet it has become so normal to hide. I want to take that normal and toss it.

Fotografiju objavljuje Tamara Ecclestone Rutland (@tamaraecclestoneofficial) Vel 8, 2017 u 9:54 PST

"Dojenje je snažna demonstracija ljubavi, a njegovanje ove demonstracije postalo je normalno sakrivati. Želim uzeti to što je normalno i baciti."

If out of all things that can offend people, they choose to judge a breastfeeding mother - they are simply a proof of what is wrong with our society. I tend to stay away from these conversations - I know my truth and don't really care if others approve. However, when I see hatery towards the second most miraculous thing in the world after having a human growing inside you - I can't keep quiet. This child is LOVED. And no, that does not mean other children are not loved because their mothers chose not to nurse. It simply means that there are many ways to express love, and let me just say - @tamaraecclestoneofficial has them all figured out. I have never seen such a strong bond in a family. The support she has from hubby @jayrutland and how devoted she is in her motherhood journey is truly inspiring. Remember - everything you feel is because you choose to feel it. Choose to love. Choose to accept. Choose to let go. Much love!

Fotografiju objavljuje Forest Fairy ✨ (@ivetteivens) Vel 9, 2017 u 6:26 PST

Zadnjih nekoliko godina na društvenim mrežama se pokrenula akcija u kojoj se dojenje novorođenčadi u javnosti želi pokazati prirodnim i normalnim, a akciji su se pridružili i mnogi slavni.

What would I do without this beauty squad after the 15 hours flying and only 3 hours of sleep #gettingready💄💅😉 O que seria de mim sem esse esquadrão da beleza depois de voar 15 horas e só dormir 3 horas. #mepreparando

Fotografiju objavljuje Gisele Bündchen (@gisele) Pro 10, 2013 u 8:00 PST

#Flashbackfriday to the day I "broke the internet" for posting a pic of something women have been doing since the beginning of time. All the filth that is constantly thrown in our faces by the media on a daily basis to point that it's the new normal, but I was viciously shamed by so many for literally sustaining life. That's crazy!!!! However, I'm so glad I posted it because over the past year or so I have seen so many young women choose to breastfeed their babies and in public!!!! I still get so many woman thanking me for being a proud breastfeeding mom and asking for advice. Being a mom is already a tough job so to have women look up to you when you are a new mom really made me feel awesome. So I just want to thank all the people who have ever left sweet comments and encouraging words on my page in the past. 😘😘😘 #BreastIsBest #NormalizeBreastFeeding #Deuce

Fotografiju objavljuje Ashley Nicole (@ash3nicole) Kol 21, 2015 u 10:51 PDT

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